When he says he's interested in you but won't make time

When he says he's interested in you but won't make time please for God's sake don't do what I did.

1. Don't think he'll come around because he won't.

2. His actions never lie.

3. Don't live in the past ( when you first met him and things were great ) as that will keep you stuck.

4. Don't think,"But I invested so much time in him". This is a sunk cost, sometimes called a retrospective cost, refers to an investment already incurred that can't be recovered. 

5. Don't blame yourself. You did everything you could for him.

6. Don't cause unnecessary stress wondering why or what you did wrong. Remember pain is inevitable suffering is optional.

7. Don't sit there staring at your phone hoping he'll call or text. He won't.

Remember if someone is into you their going to make time for you not make excuses.