Slowly learning to love myself by cutting off people who clearly don’t value me as much as I value them

I’m tired of chasing people. I’m tired of looking at my phone hoping someone anyone will text. There one guy I value and all I do is chase him only to be left on deliver or open. I'm tired of chasing as well only to be left on delivered or open for days or weeks. Just wish people had the nerve to say,"Hey, I'm not interested". Instead of me always chasing. 

I guess I’m learning self love and self respect now that I’m older. I also seen something on Reddit that made so much sense. It was a list in the self love group. It went like this. 

NOTE TO SELF:

Forget those who forget you.

Let it end. Let it hurt. Let it heal. Let it go.

Don’t force your importance into someone’s life.

If they return, remember how they left you.

People lie, but actions don’t.

Everything happens for a reason. Stay calm.

Peace is always better than revenge. 

I’m glad I’m learning more and more about self love and respecting myself. It feels good.