How has the breakup changed you as a person?

How has the breakup changed you as a person?

For me the breakups that have happen to me ( I've had plenty ) have made me for one not trust people only trust their actions, two I'm a nice person and people feel bad for breaking up with me, and three it taught me that I'm stronger than I ever knew. It has also taught me that people really don't care. That people are going to do what they want no matter if it hurts me or not. I also learned that you can be the best partner and never have any problems yet they can still walk away. The breakup also taught me that its always about me sometimes its about the other person and who they are and how they feel. I also learned you can't force someone to love you or stay with you no matter how much you beg or love them. I also learned when someone can walk away from you don't beg instead focus on yourself and your healing. Breakups happen but in the end its only what you can control not about chasing them. In my youth I use to torture myself wanting them back but now at 40 I've learned to stop being the reason for my suffering and instead be the reason why I healed and moved on.